Friday, February 13, 2009

Friend Is SomeOne Special

A Friend is someone special
Sharing moments that are precious
Always true, yet like a perfect diamond
Are rare and few

Unconditional times are spent
Through laughter and tears
These memories will last
Through out the years

When you are troubled
And your burden is heavy
A friend is there
To chase away your tears and worries

A friend is always concerned for your well being
Lending advice for you to learn when needed
Never demanding or judgmental
A friend is truly sentimental

So always remember at any given day
A true friend showers you with love and sincerity
And forever in your heart they remain
Thank you for being my friend.

- Author Unknown

Thursday, February 12, 2009

How To Be A Friend ....

01. Don't worry about knowing people just make yourself worth knowing.

02. Friends are those rare people who ask how we are and then wait to hear the answer.

03. If you can buy a person's friendship, it is not worth it.

04. True friends have hearts that beat as one.

05. If you cannot think of any nice things to say about your friends, then you have the wrong friends.

06. Make friends before you need them.

07. If you were another person, would you like to be a friend of yours?

08. A good friend is one who neither looks down on you nor keeps up with you.

09. Be friendly with the folks you know… if it weren't for them you would be a total stranger.

10. A friend is never known till he is needed.

11. Friendship is a responsibility...not an opportunity.

12. Friendship is the cement that holds the world together.

13. Friends are those who speak to you after others don't.

14. The reason a dog has so many friends is that he wags his tail and not his tongue.

15. Pick your friends, but not to pieces.

16. A friend is one who puts his finger on a fault without rubbing it in.

17. The way to have friends is to be willing to lose some arguments.

18. If a friend makes a mistake, don't rub it in... rub it out.

19. Deal with other's faults as gently as if they were your own.

20. People are judged by the company they keep and the company they keep away from.

21. A friend is a person who can step on your toes without messing up your shine.

22. The best mirror is an old friend.

23. The best possession one may have is a true friend.

24. Make friendship a habit and you will always have friends.

25. You will never have a friend if you must have one without faults.

26. Doing nothing for your friends results in having no friends to do for.

27. Anyone can give advice, but a real friend will lend a helping hand.

28. You can make more friends by being interested in them than trying to have them be interested in you.

29. A real friend is a person who, when you've made a fool of yourself, lets you forget it.

30. A friend is a person who listens attentively while you say nothing.

31. You can buy friendship with friendship, but never with dollars.

32. True friends are like diamonds, precious but rare; false friends are like autumn leaves, found everywhere.

33. A friend is someone who thinks you're a good egg even though you're slightly cracked.

- Jasmine

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

True Friendship

Once in a lifetime
you find a Friend
who touches not only your Heart
but also your Soul.

Once in a lifetime
you Discover someone
who stands Beside you,
not over you.

Once in a lifetime
if you are Lucky
you find someone
as I have found you.

Very Special people
we can be Ourselves with,
Talk with, Laugh with,
Hope with and Believe with.....

- Unknown

Tuesday, February 10, 2009

What is Friend?

A Friend is like a flower a rose to be exact,
or maybe like a brand new gate
that never come unlatched,

A Friend is like abd owl,
both beautiful and wise.
Or perhaps a friend is like a Ghose,
whose spirit never dies.

A Friend is like a heart that goes
strong until the end.
Where would we be in this world
if we didn't have a friend.

- Unknown

Monday, February 09, 2009

Special Friendship Quotes

A Special friend can help you through your very hardest days and brighten up the good time with their caring & thoughtful ways.

~ Unknown
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Friendship improves happiness and abates misery,
by the doubling of our joy and the dividing of our grief.

~ Unknown
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True Friendship comes when Silence
between two people is comfortable.

~ Dave Tyson Gentry
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A Simple Friend thinks the friendship over
when you have an argument.

A Real Friend knows that it's not a Friendship
until after you've had a fight.

~ Unknown
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Friendship is a horizon, which
expands whenever we approach it.

~ E. R. Hozlip

Friday, February 06, 2009

Friends

Friends brighten my day come sunshine or rain
In my heart dear friends will always remain
They are with me through woes and strife
Friends bring so much happiness to my life.

Friends are like a chain of pure gold
They are shaped by God in a perfect mold
Every link is love, a smile, a laugh, or a tear
A loving grip of their hand when they are near.

Friends are like a never ending circle of light
On the darkest night making my path bright
Every friend is unique in one's own way
And all together they make a lovely bouquet.

Friends are precious gifts bestowed by God's grace
I will always hold them close in a loving embrace
I have been blessed by friends God sent my way
And I will give thanks to Him each night as I pray.

© Glenna M. Baugh

Thursday, February 05, 2009

How To Become An Ideal Friend

Its not easy becoming a friend or making one because a friend is not a state of mind. Its real and its in your face. A friend is someone who makes your life worth its while a little more than yesterday. While everybody has their own definitions of a "friend", the long and short of it is we all need friends to make our lives better. We at TheHolidaySpot value our friendship as much as you do and would like to share our ideas of how to become an ideal friend with you, for if wasn't for you we wouldn't be where we are today.

Honesty Is The Best Policy...

In friendship "honesty" is the key word. One should always be honest to his or her friends. Don't overlook their faults, even if you have none for you are his friend! Praise them honestly and openly. Say you're sorry, when you hurt your friend. Don't let them assume it.

Give More Than You Take...

Be there when they need you or you may wind up alone.
Love them unconditionally, that is the only condition. Make them feel special, because aren't we all special? Never forget them, who wants to feel forgotten.

Be Supportive...

Cheer them on, we all need encouragement now and then.
Encourage their dreams and aspiration, Life seems almost meaningless without them.
Your words count, use them wisely.
Use good judgement.
Wish them luck, hopefully good
Eamine your motives before you "help" out
Just be there when they need you
Really listen, a friendly ear is a soothing balm

Forgiveness...

Forgive them for, "To Err is Human", and you just may end up making the same mistakes in course of time..

Keep The Faith...

Have faith in them. For, there is no love without trust.
Zip your lips when they confide in you.

Express Yourself Clearly

Know when they need a hug, and couldn't you use one?
Offer to help, and know when " No thanks" is just politeness
Quietly disagree, noisy No's make enemies
Verbalsise your feelings

Have Fun...

Get together often, misery loves company, so does glee.
Talk frequently, communication is important.

Enjoying your friendship is the order of the day. So its not what we call a friendship if you don't feel right. Always remember a friendship is worth it when you are able to enjoy the amazing relationship with no holds barred. Its a mutual bond for life that you cant give up.

- Unknown

Wednesday, February 04, 2009

A Friendship Prayer

I paused to say a prayer today
Thoughts just flooded my mind,
I prayed that God would visit you,
And give you peace of mind.

I thanked Him for the blessings
He sends to me along the way,
I prayed that He would bless you too,
And guide you til your life is through.

I told my God some have so many trials,
And life seems such a up hill climb,
I ask that He would send you strength,
He is God, He is always on time.

You have become so dear to me
How great to have you as my friend,
I pray that angels will guard your life,
Until your journey on earth will end.

© Bernice Ward

Tuesday, February 03, 2009

Be A Friend

Be a friend. You don't need money;
Just a disposition sunny;
Just the wish to help another
Get along some way or other;
Just a kindly hand extended
Out to one who's unbefriended;
Just the will to give or lend,
This will make you someone's friend.

Be a friend. You don't need glory.
Friendship is a simple story.
Pass by trifling errors blindly,
Gaze on honest effort kindly,
Cheer the youth who's bravely trying,
Pity him who's sadly sighing;
Just a little labor spend
On the duties of a friend.

Be a friend. The pay is bigger
(Though not written by a figure)
Than is earned by people clever
In what's merely self-endeavor.
You'll have friends instead of neighbors
For the profits of your labors;
You'll be richer in the end
Than a prince, if you're a friend.

- Unknown

Monday, February 02, 2009

Friendship Story - A True Friend

A girl asked a guy if he thought she was pretty,

He said...No.

She asked him if he would want to be with her forever...and he said "No."

She then asked him if she were to leave would he cry, and once again he replied with a No.

She had heard enough. As she walked away, tears streaming down her face the boy grabbed her arm and said...

You're not pretty you're beautiful.

I don't want to be with you forever, I NEED to be with you forever.

And I wouldn't cry if you walked away...I'd die...

SO NOW I WILL SAY:

I like you because of whom you are to me...A true friend.
Remember:

A good friend will come bail you out of jail....
But a true friend will be sitting next to you saying...
'WE screwed up!'
Proud to be your Friend!

- Author Unknown

Thursday, January 29, 2009

You are My Sweet Friend

I love your very energy...
You're fun to be around!
Your laughter lifts me higher...
When I am feeling down!

I can't recall a single time,
Back through all the years...
You haven't brought a smile to me,
And helped me dry my tears!

If there are any true friends...
I can't imagine how...
For there could never be two hearts...
More close than ours are now!

- Unknown

Wednesday, January 28, 2009

Some Great Friendship Messages

Friendship is not a game to play, It is not a word to say,
It doesn't start on March and ends on May,
It is tomorrow, yesterday, today and everyday.

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Age appears to be best in some things.
Old wood best to burn.
Old books best to read.
Old rice best to eat and
Old friends best to keep.

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True friends are like mornings, You cant have them the whole day,
but you can be sure, they will be there when you wakeup tomorrow, next year and forever.

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As long as we have memories, yesterday remains;
as long as we have hope, tomorrow awaits.
As long as we have Friendship, each day is never a waste.
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Friendship is a Priceless gift that can't be Bought or Sold,
But to have an Understanding Friend is far more worth than Gold.
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- Unknown

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Meaning of F.R.I..E.N.D.S.H.I.P

"F" is for Fun............That friends share when they are together.

"R" is for Reliability....A true friend is someone that you can always rely on.

"I" is for Interest.......Someone who is genuinely interested in you, your fears, joys, and life.

"E" is for Energy.........They pick you up when you are down, and give you the energy to go on and believe in yourself.

"N" is for Nothing........Nothing is ever too much, no matter what time it is, night or day.

"D" is for Distance.......Although the miles may separate you, a true friend is never far away.

"S" is for Secrets......Your feelings and personal/private thoughts that you can only share with a friend.

"H" is for Happiness......The way one feels when they are with a friend.

"I" is for Inseparable....Through good times and bad, tears and laughter. A friend will always be there for you.

"P" is for Perfect....The friendship...........................

Monday, January 26, 2009

Real Meaning of Friendship

I'll Be There

I'll be there because I care!

When you are sick or unabled,
know that I'm near,
I'll be there because I care!

Each time your heart is torn or broken,
and needs to be repaired,
I'll be there because I care!

When your heart is pounding and you are afraid,
or any time you may be scared,
I'll be there because I care!

For everything that makes you cry,
for everytime you shed a tear,
I'll be there because I care!

When you find that good friends aren't true friends,
when you don't feel like talking but
just need someone here,
I'll be there because I care!

When the going gets rough,
and times are hard to persevere,
I'll be there because I care!

When the kids are a handful,
or the times you need a prayer,
I'll be there because I care!

When life has little or no meaning,
when you feel no one is aware,
I'll be there because I care! !

When you need a shoulder to lean on, a hug, or a smile,
or things seem pointless and unfair,
I'll be there because I care!

In each season in your life,
in all the smiles or burdens you bare,
I'll be there because I care!

In your joys, your questions, your tragedys,
in your happiness, silliness, your
despair,
I'll be there because I care!

When something special happens,
and you just want to share,
I'll be there because I care!

Because I am your friend,
I'll be the one, the one that cares!

- Unknown

Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Unique Friendship Quotes

"Friendship is always a sweet responsibilty, never an oppourtunity."
~ Kahil Gibran

"I no doubt deserved my enemies, but I don't believe I deserved my friends."
~ Walt Whitman

"True friendship is never serene."
~ Marquise de Sevigne

"When friends stop being frank and useful to each other, the whole world loses some of its radiance."
~ Anatole Broyard

"Am I not destroying my enemies when I make friends of them?"
~ Abraham Lincoln

"Don't believe your friends when they ask you to be honest with them. All they really want is to be maintained in the good opinion they have of themselves."
~ Albert Camus

Monday, January 19, 2009

Beautiful Friendship

Have you ever watched a butterfly
The beauty and the grace
That perch among the lovely flowers
Looking for a special place.

I watch them as they flutter
And wonder how it could be
Through a beautiful butterfly
Your face comes to me.

I guess that's easy to explain
A friendship warm and kind
Just like the sweet butterfly
So rare when one you find.

Welcome to my happy thoughts
Of butterflies so sweet
A dear friend that I care for
Who just can't be beat.

I take this time to tell you
You are special in every way
And send this card to let you know
I'm thinking of you today.

© Ginny Bryant

Friday, January 16, 2009

Power of a Friend ................

As I am awakened swiftly
From a deep and peaceful sleep
My heart is racing wildly
Like a million little feet.

The panic that I used to feel
Has turned to something new
A feeling of strength and power
That I have somehow learned from you.

You have empowered me
To take a look within
And find the love of a friend
Where fear had always been.

So, now I reach into the dark
And feel the ray of light
From the love a friend sends to me
Shinning bright into the night.

- Unknown

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Beauty of Friendship

Friendship is a priceless gift
that cannot be bought or sold,
But its value is far greater
than a mountain made of gold.

For gold is cold and lifeless,
it can neither see nor hear
And in the time of trouble
it is powerless to cheer...

It has no ears to listen
Nor heart to understand,
It cannot bring you comfort
or reach out a helping hand.

So when you ask God for a gift
be thankful if He sends
not diamonds, pearls or riches
but the love of real true friends.

- Unknown

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

For My Best Friend

This is for you, my best friend,
the one person i can tell my soul too
Who can relate to me like no other
Who I can laugh with to no extents,
Who I can cry too when times are tough,
Who can help me with the problems of my life.

Never have you turned your back on me
Or told me I wasnt good enough
Or let me down

I don't think you know what that means to me
You have went through so much pain and you still have time
For me.
And I love you for listening even when inside YOU are dying
And I look up too you because you are strong,
and caring
and beautiful.
Even though you don't think you are.

And I hope you know that I am always here
To listen to you laugh and cry and help
In all the ways that I can
And I will try to be at least half the friend you are
To me.

I hope you know I would not be the person I am today, with out you.
My best friend.

- Author Unknown

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

The Best of Friends

The best of friends,
Can change a frown,
Into a smile,
when you feel down.

The best of friends,
Will understand,
Your little trials,
And lend a hand.

The best of friends,
Will always share,
Your secret dreams,
Because they care.

The best of friends,
Worth more than gold,
Give all the love,
A heart can hold.

- Unknown